How would you describe your best friend? Does just thinking of this person’s name bring a smile? Would you use words to describe your friend like: there, around, a phonecall away, and present? Would you also say things like: patient, caring, genuine, authentic, real, honest, trustworthy, comfortable, a safe place, or considerate? What about some of these characteristics: dependable, loyal, a good listener, fun to be around, or supportive?

I hope by now you are thinking of even other characteristics of your best friend! What else would you say?

The Value of a Friend

The wise man Solomon helped us understand the value of friendship:

9 Two are better than one, Because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion.10 But woe to him who is alone when he falls, For he has no one to help him up… (Ecclesiastes 4:9‭-‬12)

Friendship blesses both people and is loaded with practical value. Solomon points out the simplicity of friendship: Two are better than one.

Three Things You Can Do Today to Make Yourself a Better Friend

First, make a list of the characteristics you most appreciate about your friends. If you have time, you can always share it with them too. It will both encourage you and your friends.
Second, take your list and consider your own life. Are you that kind of person? Are you the person you would appreciate as a friend? Try to determine if you are a giver or a taker, one who builds up his or her friends or just primarily takes from them.
Third, where you find places of weakness, work on one of the areas you identify. Seek to be intentional today as you interact with others around you.
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