When wronged or frustrated with another person, most of us find it easy to desire, plan, or practice revenge. What about when someone says something embarrassing? It is easy to respond with harsh words, pointed comments, or unkind actions. When someone pulls in front of us while driving, potentially our response is less than godly. What about when someone specifically sins against us? Is it not very easy to respond with equal or greater force?
As you go throughout this day and week, these and a hundred other things can potentially happen to you. When they do, how will you respond? What will you do when someone either wrongs you or you perceive something as wrong? Your response will impact not only you but the other person as well.
You Can Focus on Good
We receive great perspective from the Apostle Paul. He wrote:
17 Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. 18 If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. 19 Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. 20 Therefore
“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
If he is thirsty, give him a drink;
For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.”21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (Romans 12:17-21)
Paul challenges all followers of Christ to do the exact opposite of what comes so natural. Instead of retaliate, vent, or “get a pound of flesh,” Paul says to live peaceably, do not avenge, and specifically pursue good.
Your Good Response Is More Effective
Pastor – Do you have a microphone placed nearby? God is so gracious in His conviction. Thank you for your faithfulness to write what is on your heart.
No microphones 🙂
Glad it was a helpful reminder