Sex. In today’s world, this word is overused. In today’s church, this word is often underused. Many of those who claim to have a relationship with Jesus Christ fail to understand what the Bible teaches about this most intimate of human relationships. This series was written for you in mind. Throughout these pages and across the many words, common questions and concerns are explored, answered, and advice is given. The common factor that runs throughout these pages is the Bible. Each question, topic, and concern will be built upon the foundation of the Word of God. The Bible speaks often about this topic. We are helped as married couples, those preparing for marriage, and single individuals who seek to think correctly about the biblical view of sex.

  

Couples Who Are Struggling

For those married couples who are struggling in the area of sex, welcome! Look at the list of articles below to get started. I encourage you to start with the first blog and go from there. However, if you have a specific question that you see answered down below, then go ahead and jump down there to get started. Bookmark this page so that you can easily click through the various questions and topics.

   

Premarital Couples

If you are engaged or considering engagement, then use this series as a premarital guide to the biblical view of sex. When I was married as a young Christian pastor’s son to a young Christian young lady, we did not have great advice on sex. Some things were suggested; however, nothing prepared us for the real world of marital sex. I do not want that for you. In these pages, you will both find real answers to real questions. You may want to know more about a certain aspect of marital intimacy; however, I have sought to honestly provide you what you need to get started. Again, start at the first article below and work through the series that way.

   

Philosophy of Writing

As you read below, you can rest your mind on these three convictions. Regarding what is written:

1. I take the Bible seriously. It is God’s Word, written to help us live life for God’s glory (2 Tim 3:16-17).
2. I am concerned for you. As brothers and sisters-in-Christ, I want you to have a reliable source to which you can turn that helps you answer real questions with real answers. 
3. I seek to write in love and light. Christ’s love motivates me as I think through and write this series. Further, I want to share the light of biblical truth and wisdom on this much-needed topic.

May God receive the glory.

   

Sex Series on KevinCarson.com

Part 1: What You Need to Know about Sex and Why

Part 2: What is the Ultimate Purpose of Sex?

Part 3: What is the motivation for good sex?

Part 4: What are the benefits of good sex?

Part 5: What is the connection between sex and communication?

Part 6: How can you understand the struggle of a man’s desire for sex in marriage?

Part 7: How should a husband deal with his desire for sex?

Part 8: Wife, are you cheating your husband?

Part 9: Husband, are you cheating your wife?

Part 10: What Does the Bible Teach about Sex? Sex in Marriage is Pure and Holy.

Part 11: What does the Bible say about how often a married couple should have sex?

Part 12: What is a Christian Allowed to Do in Sex? What is Permissible?

Part 13: What does the Bible teach about anal sex?

Part 14: What does the Bible teach about oral sex?

Part 15: What does the Bible teach about masturbation?

Part 16: What does the Bible teach about sexual aids (including BDSM), pornography, and X-rated videos?

Part 17: No Sex Tonight, AGAIN

Editor’s Note: Why write about sex? Great question, I’m glad you asked. In Christian circles, there is a great void of anyone writing, talking, or helping people think through the issues of sex. The world has much to say. The Bible does as well. I regularly receive questions online about these issues. I occasionally add to this sex series in an effort to help Christians struggling in this area. I’m saddened by all the notes I receive and counseling sessions I have. The mere numbers represent a staggering need for someone to seek to help. So why write about sex? I recognize a real need among Christians to consider this issue – as people who need care and those who give care to others. Do you have questions, concerns, or comments for me? I would love to hear from you. Please Click Here