Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day
Each year on October 15th, people all over the world pause to remember those littlest humans who have been lost either in the womb through miscarriage or stillbirth, ectopic pregnancy, or those who have died after birth.
This year especially hurts as we think about all those sweet children who have died with complications during the pandemic.
We stop to remember those little ones who we have lost in the past twelve months and in all the days before. As a daddy of a sweet girl who only lived for one month, I understand the significance of this day. Our sweet little ones have left a hole in our hearts that cannot be filled. We resonate with the truth that God loves our children immensely and knows them from before the foundation of the world (Psalm 139:13-16). As much as we love our little ones, God loves them more.
We also think of each other. For those of you who have also lost one of these little ones, we think of you today as well. As day after day passes, possibly others around you have quit mentioning your little one(s) and loss to you. On some days, it is easy to think that you are the only one that remembers. This is not true. Most people do not know how to bring it up, are afraid to sadden you, or just get caught up in life while the days pass. Although it never leaves your mind, with others, there are many other things to distract them.
Some of you reading now are grandparents and friends who have loved these little ones deeply. Your hurt is real today as well. You have loved and lost too. Where some may remember to mention their love, care, and memories to the parents, you may not hear from anyone. However, your love and care is so appreciated and makes our world a better place.
Today though, we stop to remember. I have prayed for you this day. You are not alone. Not only is God with you and loves you, but there are those who care deeply for you. Even now as others read this blog, they may join me in praying for you as well. In fact, if you have lost a little one, maybe take a second and ask God to help others like you too.
On this day we recognize the loss, the lingering love, and the heartache of those who have lost a pregnancy or an infant. May God grant you the grace of His comfort and presence today.
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